Your unhappiness is the first step to your happiness believe it or not. If you were content with how your life looks and never felt the need to envision anything better you'd probably never be here reading this.
Realize that your unhappiness is actually your mind telling you that you are not where you are supposed to be.
For that reason it is absolutely unnecessary to dwell on it.
It is however absolutely necessary for you to be unhappy in order to want something better.
Just make sure instead of letting your unhappiness consume you, you let it push you forward towards the life you want.
Realize that you deserve everything this life has to offer you and you absolutely have what it takes to get there.
You might not believe it at first but sometimes you just have to repeat these things to yourself until your mind believes it.
Fake it till you make it in a sense.
Wake up everyday and say to yourself out loud...
"THANK YOU FOR ALL THE OPPORTUNITIES THAT WILL COME MY WAY TODAY"
"MY BEST LIFE IS OUT THERE WAITING FOR ME"
"AND IM GOING TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET THERE"
You have to understand that your mind is like a sponge.
It takes the words that you say and translates them into how it thinks you want to be feeling.
If you wake up and the first words out of your mouth are...
"UGHHHH"
"I HATE MY LIFE"
"THIS DAY IS GOING TO SUCK"
"IM SO TIRED"
"I DONT FEEL LIKE GETTING OUT OF BED"
That is exactly the how you will feel throughout the day.
If you seek a better, happier and more fulfilled life.
You have to act as though you already have it.
Be grateful and understand that its already on its way to you.
You just have to be patient, remain positive, work towards it everyday and never stop believing that it can happen for you.
You will never get to the life you want by acting and thinking like your old self.
You have to transform yourself into your new self and that will ultimately lead you to that exact place where you want to be.
So if you're unhappy...
Don't dwell..
Don't allow yourself to be unhappy any longer..
Just go out there and get what it is that you want.
Because its all out there waiting for you!